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A Conversation: To Play or Not To Play

by karlyn on April 26, 2012

I got a text message from a friend of mine last night. Here is the conversation that followed, word for word:

Friend: I need some advice. Are you available?

Karlyn: Sure

Friend: I have an opportunity to make a power play at work. Get anything I want.

Karlyn: Ok…

Friend: I could fuck over everyone I know, doing so.

Karlyn: Don’t do that.

Friend: OK! Even if I have gripes?

Karlyn: Gripes can be dealt with but you shouldn’t hurt people deliberately.

Friend: Can make positive change?

Karlyn: You can make positive change without hurting people.

Friend: I could make them better, long run, but short term it will look like I’m a traitor.

Karlyn: They would never trust you again.

Friend: …If I get caught.

Karlyn: When people make power plays, they always get caught eventually. One way or another, it will come back to bite you.

Friend: Yeah…

Karlyn: Look for positive ways to make change…ways that will help everyone. But don’t hurt people. That never leads to the type of change you want.

Friend: I think I can do that. I’m not certain what I’d get out of it though.

Karlyn: When you put good vibes out, it comes back. Karma works both ways.

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Here’s the deal guys: When you play games, it always comes back to bite you. Always. Maybe not today or tomorrow, but karma never forgets. There is never a good reason to throw someone under the bus for a temporary benefit. I don’t care how much a person has wronged you, how annoying they are, how much you disagree with them. If you have to resort to hurting them to get ahead, there is no better indication of the fact that you should spend more time focusing on your job. When you pull yourself out of the political gameplay and focus on your work, you’ll earn the benefits you seek. And you’ll be able to look yourself in the mirror every day.

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As I’m closing in on the time when I need to start my dissertation in earnest, more and more research questions are popping into my head.

Since I started my Ph.D. journey, I have been interested in exploring whether or not there is a link between individuals who use social media to communicate with their peers and job performance and job satisfaction. I’m not talking about people who passively make connections via LinkedIn – I’m talking about individuals who are actively engaging via these networks from a genuine intrinsic motivation to learn more and grow. I’ve got two research questions that I’m interested in:

  • Is there a link between professional networking via online social media and job performance?
  • Is there a link between professional networking via online social media and job satisfaction?

So, essentially, does social media make people better at their jobs and does social media make people happier in their work? Of course, there are several problems with this type of inquiry, at least as it pertains to a formal dissertation. The first is that I’ve had a hard time convincing potential faculty mentors that this is a psychological inquiry. For me, it seems cut and dry – this is social learning their at it’s finest. But when I saw social media, it conjures of very distinct pre-conceived notions in their head that may not be entirely accurate. Plus, it’s a harder sell since very little research has conducted on social media in the I/O psychology realm. I fear that these may be questions that have to wait until after I’ve done the formal dissertation to pursue.

A second area that I’ve been thinking a lot about lately is workplace bullying. This is something that so many people experience, both at the hands of their peers and of their boss. It’s something that isn’t generally recognized, rarely corrected and can be deeply damaging on both a professional and personal level.

Of course, an inquiry like this screams out for a qualitative study: What are the lived experiences of individuals who have experienced workplace bullying by their peers?

But for a dissertation, a quantitative approach will allow me to get it done faster. I’ve yet to find any research linking workplace bullying to groupthink, which seems rather obvious to me. Therefore, a possible research question is: Is there a link between workplace bullying and groupthink behaviors?

Of course, this comes with many problems by itself – how do I identify people who are the victims of workplace bullying? How do I identify workplace groupthink? And how do I study these too phenomenas in a way that will hold up to academic scrutiny?

Finally, and this one just occurred to me last night, I’ve been thinking a lot about employees who are more or less evolved. For example, one thing you can look at is whether or not employees are capable of recognizing and acknowledging the differing points of view of others. When I originally started to learn about it, it seems more a question of motivation – if a person was predominantly intrinsically or extrinsically motivated. More recently though, I have begun to wonder if personality type is actually more directly responsible. Therefore, a question could be: Is there a link between personality type and ability to recognize differing viewpoints of colleagues?

The big glaring problem with this one is how do I assess personality type? An easy answer would be the MBTI, but that has a lot of problems with it since it is not without problems itself. But what kind of personality test is?

So I’ve got a lot to think about, and much research to do. Right now, my current favorite is probably the topic of workplace bullying. I’m sure that in the coming months, many more potential topics will make themselves known. It will be interesting to see how it all shakes out.

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